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Happy New Decade, everyone! It has been radio silence from me for a long time, and I just want to say I admire Jessica for taking the reigns of The Haute Life, growing it and keeping the content [...]

I remember the 21st night of September. I remember because September 21st, 2002 is the anniversary of my wedding to my late husband. It’s days like today that make me think [...]

This opinion piece was initially published on May 21, 2015 Being alone sucks. That was the thought I could not shake this past Sunday. When I first had the idea to write about being alone, it was [...]

The pain from mourning a loved one is not just emotional but physical. So, logic dictates that one should be vigorously active to fight that physical pain. But, as many know, exercise is the last [...]

As a child, if you get a burn, you quickly learn not to touch fire. Cut yourself with a knife, and you learn to steer clear of the blade when cutting. We don’t forget the pain we experience [...]

I’ve always thought the autumnal equinox was so romantic; the merging of two beautiful seasons for a brief moment. A quick kiss from summer to fall. The first day of fall generally occurs [...]

Betrayal; when someone betrays your trust, your loyalty, and your love, the first response is primal. Our first thoughts turn to revenge. But, if history has taught us anything, it is that joy [...]

If before August 10th, 2014, you had asked me if I wanted any sort of do-over, I would have answered no. Because at that point in my life, I liked the woman I had become and all of my life [...]

Rip Tide There is an image embedded in my mind that will never go away. It was the day I knew my life was changing and I would never find my way back to the woman I once was.  It was a [...]

We hope this Widow’s Column provides hope, support and a sounding board for anyone who has lost a spouse. We know we’re not alone. We want to hear from you. Share your experiences and [...]